The Power of Storytelling, Embracing Imperfection, and Finding Your Authentic Voice

5 Key Takeaways on Speaking Authentically:

1. Private Speaking: Show Up As Yourself: Jordyn’s concept of private speaking flips public speaking on its head. The goal isn’t to perform—it’s to connect. Your energy on stage should feel like you’re speaking to a trusted friend, not auditioning for a part.
2. FOPO Is Rooted in Evolution, Not Weakness: FOPO (Fear of other people’s opinions) is hardwired into us. Jordyn explains how millions of years of evolution (and our amygdala) are responsible for the fight-or-flight response we feel when all eyes are on us—and how to move past it.
3. Preparation Makes Authenticity Possible: You don’t have to choose between sounding prepared and being yourself. In fact, preparation gives you the freedom to show up more confidently and improvise in the moment.
4. Storytelling Builds Trust: Personal stories release oxytocin, increase connection, and make you more persuasive. Jordyn shares how to build a “story library” tied to key messages you want to communicate.
5. Progress Over Perfection: Public speaking is a skill—not a personality trait. Daily conversations, team meetings, or even introducing yourself to someone new are all opportunities to practice and get more comfortable with being seen and heard.

Show Notes:

[00:01:00] Jordyn shares how public speaking has shaped her personal and professional journey.

[00:03:00] Why she left law to launch Speakwell—and how it was a long time coming.

[00:05:00] Coaching people who believe they “just aren’t good” at public speaking.

[00:07:00] Why anyone can improve with practice, from CEOs to nervous first-timers.

[00:09:00] How to avoid sounding robotic—even if you’ve rehearsed a lot.

[00:12:00] The science and history behind FOPO and glossophobia.

[00:16:00] Encouraging authenticity—even when it’s scary.

[00:20:00] What to do if your true self hasn’t always been celebrated.

[00:22:00] The science behind storytelling—and how to make stories memorable.

[00:24:00] Real-world client story: From musty hotel room to high-end AGM.

[00:26:00] Learning to embrace imperfections, filler words, and humanness.

[00:28:00] Using self-evaluation and tech tools to improve (including ACE).

[00:30:00] Low-stakes ways to build your skills in daily life.

[00:33:00] How preparation unlocks authenticity.