The Power of Storytelling, Embracing Imperfection, and Finding Your Authentic Voice
5 Key Takeaways on Speaking Authentically:
- Private Speaking: Show Up As Yourself: Jordyn’s concept of private speaking flips public speaking on its head. The goal isn’t to perform—it’s to connect. Your energy on stage should feel like you’re speaking to a trusted friend, not auditioning for a part.
- FOPO Is Rooted in Evolution, Not Weakness: FOPO (Fear of other people’s opinions) is hardwired into us. Jordyn explains how millions of years of evolution (and our amygdala) are responsible for the fight-or-flight response we feel when all eyes are on us—and how to move past it.
- Preparation Makes Authenticity Possible: You don’t have to choose between sounding prepared and being yourself. In fact, preparation gives you the freedom to show up more confidently and improvise in the moment.
- Storytelling Builds Trust: Personal stories release oxytocin, increase connection, and make you more persuasive. Jordyn shares how to build a “story library” tied to key messages you want to communicate.
- Progress Over Perfection: Public speaking is a skill—not a personality trait. Daily conversations, team meetings, or even introducing yourself to someone new are all opportunities to practice and get more comfortable with being seen and heard.
Show Notes:
[00:01:00] Jordyn shares how public speaking has shaped her personal and professional journey.
[00:03:00] Why she left law to launch Speakwell—and how it was a long time coming.
[00:05:00] Coaching people who believe they “just aren’t good” at public speaking.
[00:07:00] Why anyone can improve with practice, from CEOs to nervous first-timers.
[00:09:00] How to avoid sounding robotic—even if you’ve rehearsed a lot.
[00:12:00] The science and history behind FOPO and glossophobia.
[00:16:00] Encouraging authenticity—even when it’s scary.
[00:20:00] What to do if your true self hasn’t always been celebrated.
[00:22:00] The science behind storytelling—and how to make stories memorable.
[00:24:00] Real-world client story: From musty hotel room to high-end AGM.
[00:26:00] Learning to embrace imperfections, filler words, and humanness.
[00:28:00] Using self-evaluation and tech tools to improve (including ACE).
[00:30:00] Low-stakes ways to build your skills in daily life.
[00:33:00] How preparation unlocks authenticity.
